Did you ever wonder why some people cry more than others in the aftermath of a loss, or how it is that your ways of coping appear to be so different from another’s ways?

Author and psychologist Bob Baugher, doctorate, is offering a free lecture and discussion on individual differences in the grieving process, titled “Of Course We’re Different – But Why?: Appreciating Individual Differences in Grieving.”

His presentation, sponsored by Lopez Island Hospice and Home Support, will be held in the library community room on Saturday, April 18, 10 a.m. until noon.

As a psychology instructor at Highline Community College in Des Moines, Wash., and as a much sought-after speaker and workshop leader, Baugher has taught extensively on subjects related to bereavement and coping with loss.

He has authored seven books on topics that include grief after traumatic loss and suicide, guilt and bereavement, and helping children cope. He has studied how and why individuals grieve differently and will help us understand how to make room for those variations.

In this presentation, Baugher will discuss gender and personality differences, interpersonal and couple differences, and many predisposing factors such as belief systems, guilt and anger.

His class will conclude with suggestions for dealing with differences, with the goal of enhancing acceptance and understanding of ourselves and of others.  For further info, call Lopez Island Hospice and Home Support, 468-4446.